By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another (John 13.35). Jesus told us that Christianity was going to consist of really personal relationships with each other. The basis of those relationships would be faith in Him and love for one another.
The word for “love” in this verse is agapaō; it is not an emotional form of love but a determination of the will to always act in the best interest of another regardless of the cost to oneself. For example: “For God so loved (agapaō) the world that He gave His only begotten Son…” His overwhelming love for us (in spite of our rebellion against Him) cost Him something. What He did wasn’t in His best interest, but ours.
The most visible test of discipleship is how we treat each other because that’s how the world sees us – how we behave toward one another:
“Carry one another’s burdens” (Galatians 6.2).
“Serve one another” (Galatians 5.13).
“Let us not pass judgment on one another” (Romans 14.13).
“Do not lie to one another” (Colossians 3.9).
“Be patient and forbearing with one another” (Ephesians 4.2).
“Be kind and compassionate with one another” (Ephesians 4.32).
“Honor one another” (Romans 12.10).
“Forgive one another as God in Christ forgave you” (Ephesians 4.32).
“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves” (Philippians 2.3).
Here’s the question: Does the living witness of our faith pass this simple test of discipleship?
– grace to you all, and peace – Bill